Bitter or Better: Real Stories of Divorce and Resilience
Bitter or Better is a raw and real podcast about the messy middle of divorce— the quiet strength you lean into to get through the toughest days, the resilience and confidence you build along the way, and the ways you learn to rebuild a life that’s your own. Hosted by an accomplished marketer, National Board Certified Health & Wellness Coach and aspiring author writing her first novel about her own traumatic divorce experience, Abby England has been through it all herself. This show isn’t about legal advice or therapy jargon; it’s about real people - everyday folks navigating love lost, co-parenting chaos, financial fallout, and finding their way back to themselves. Each episode features unfiltered conversations with people who’ve lived through the heartbreak of divorce—what broke down in their marriages, how they survived the storm, the tools that helped, and their core values they rediscovered along the way. This isn’t a highlight reel—it’s a safe space for the stories that are too often whispered, showing that while divorce can break you, it can also build you into someone stronger, wiser, and, yes, even better.
Episodes
8 episodes
Ep. 8 - Blindsided and Relieved: Why I’m Grateful He Had an Affair
A 24-year marriage can end in a single sentence. Nicole hears it in marriage counseling when her husband stands up, walks out, and comes back to admit he’s been having an affair. What follows isn’t a neat breakup story; it’s the messy middle: n...
Ep. 7 - Reinventing at 47: Embracing Your Second Chance at Life
Divorce doesn’t always arrive as one explosion. Sometimes it shows up as a quiet, relentless grind that slowly convinces you something is fundamentally off. I sit down with Tanya Garcia to talk about what it’s like to realize the cracks are the...
Ep. 6 - The Gift of Loneliness: Rebuilding After Divorce
A protective order, drained accounts, and a month without seeing their kids would break most people. Casey walks us through how it felt to sit in a parking lot late at night with no phone, no money, and no idea who would believe him and how tha...
Ep. 5 - Highschool Sweethearts to High-Conflict Divorce
A whisper at 4:30 a.m., a drive to the gym, and a truth that splits a life in two. Lauren takes us through the raw, human reality of discovering not one but two affairs, both with close friends, and the slow, steady climb toward a healthier fut...
Ep. 4 - Necessary Endings: Breaking the Silent Treatment
Heartbreak can be loud, but clarity often arrives in the quiet. We sit down with Monica to follow her honest path from early sparks to a marriage defined by emotional withdrawal and the constant tension of walking on eggshells. When a cross-cou...
Ep. 3 - Choosing Better: Challenges, Learnings, Wisdom
Heartbreak can flatten your plans and rewrite your identity in an instant. Abby opens up about the shock of betrayal, the weight of unfairness, and the paradox of missing someone who broke every boundary you trusted, then shows how small, stubb...
Ep. 2 - I Discover the Truth. Game On.
The story starts with whiplash: apologies at 11 p.m., holiday intimacy, then another abrupt stop. We pull back the curtain on what it takes to navigate a stop-start relationship, gather facts without losing yourself, and make bold moves when wo...
Ep. 1 - There’s a Landmine in my Happy Marriage
A love story can look solid on the outside and still fracture in the quiet hours. We open up about how a decade of loyalty, drive, and shared goals slowly bent under the weight of identity shifts, corporate pressure, and a move that erased our ...